Dating Polish Women: Where & How to Meet Polish Girls

If you’re interested in Polish women dating, you’ve come to the right place. Here, our dating experts will tell you everything about Polish woman personality traits, but that’s not all. We’ll also talk about the benefits of dating a Polish woman and about the most prominent Polish woman traits that make them so popular among American men. Continue reading and find a lot of useful information about dating Polish girls!

What are Polish women like?

Want to know more about the most prominent Polish woman characteristics? Here, you’ll find the top 3 reasons why Polish girls are worth dating.

• Polish ladies are typically more traditional than ladies from the US and Western Europe. They have strong family ties, and they share quite traditional gender roles (like, a man should protect and provide, a woman should be an excellent mother, etc.). Well, it shouldn’t come as a surprise that they have a very solid approach to gender equality east of Oder. However, you’ll most likely meet Polish women online, and the girls who are dating foreign men through online services are certainly not the kind of women whose traditionalism can cause cultural misunderstanding. Still, Polish culture is more traditional than Western culture, so local girls are generally more attached to gender norms than their Western counterparts. The same is about family values—an average Polish girl would be more family-centered and marriage-minded than an average American, British, or Canadian lady.
• Polish girls are incredibly beautiful. Poland, like all the Slavic countries, has a large portion of the female population with perfect bodies and incredibly attractive facial features. But it’s not even about their natural beauty, it’s about the combination of their natural beauty with high maintenance. They spend a lot of time on fitness and diets, know everything about makeup, and are perfectly stylish.
• They are very interesting to talk to and to spend time with. The problem here is that they may expect you to spend too much time with them: some call Polish ladies possessive, but we can’t say that 100% of them are like this.

If these qualities of Polish women interest you, then continue reading, and you will learn how to date them successfully and more interesting facts.

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5 interesting facts about Polish women

• Poland has the lowest divorce rate among all the Slavic countries—it’s only 1.7 divorces per 1,000 population in Poland, while in Ukraine, Belarus, or Russia, this rate is much higher (2.88 per 1,000 in Ukraine, 3.7 in Russia and Belarus).
• TFR is only 1.4 (children per 1 woman), which is pretty typical for Slavic countries. Women in Eastern Europe don’t want to have more than 1–2 children because of various factors, but mostly because of economic reasons.
• An average Polish girl gets married in her late 20s (27.9). Women in Poland get married later than women from other Slavic countries (the mean age of women at first marriage is 25.9 in Ukraine, around 25.5 in Russia, and 26.1 in Belarus).
• The mother’s mean age at first birth is 27.6 years old in Poland. Women in the EU have their first child on average at 29, so Polish women give birth to their first child earlier than an average European lady. However, more than 50% of Polish women become mothers in their 30s (33.9% of women fall into the 30-34 age category, and 17.2% of women fall into the 35-39 age category).
• Polish girls are very educated. The share of young adults (25–34 years old) with tertiary attainment in Poland is increasing at a faster pace than on average across OECD countries (14% of 25-34-year-olds in 2000, 41% in 2021). The share of women among general upper secondary graduates is 60%, which is an extremely high result.

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How to meet a Polish woman?

If you are going to meet a Polish woman, you can go two ways: offline and online dating. Well, you can also contact a marriage agency, but we’re talking about real things here, not about a blind date that would cost you $5,000.

• So, the first option is: to date offline. Warsaw (the capital city) and other large cities are almost perfect for that—there are lots of young Polish girls who speak English quite well there, and the number of women genuinely interested in dating a foreigner is the largest there, too. The main problem is that it’s not that easy to approach women on the streets of a foreign city and that you’ll waste a lot of time trying to find a Polish girlfriend if you approach them offline.
• Online. There are lots of great dating websites with Polish girls, and you just need to choose a safe and reputable one to start chatting with thousands of real women. It’s more convenient than going to Poland, and it’s obviously cheaper (around $150 per month vs. $600-$900 for a flight and $700-$1,000 for 2 weeks in Warsaw).

Obviously, if you don’t want to waste time and money, you need to meet Polish girls online. However, if the first option seems more attractive, why not try it?

Process of dating a Polish woman online: All you need to know

Wondering how to meet Polish women online? Here’s a guide for you—continue reading to find out how to choose a dating site, how to create a catchy profile, and how not to lose time and money while dating online.

Do’s and don’ts of dating a woman from Poland

If you’re interested in dating a Polish woman, continue reading. Here, you’ll find the top 5 do’s and don’ts that will help you succeed on a date with any Polish girl!

Do’s

• ✅ Bring flowers. But, well, this isn’t a rule, it’s one of those things that can go either way. For example, if it’s your first date with a new girl, bringing flowers will probably not be the best idea because the first dates are usually public, and bringing flowers on a public date is weird. Like, is she supposed to carry the bouquet throughout the date? What if you meet at the theater, cinema, or restaurant? What if you have a coffee date? In all these cases, flowers won’t work. But if you give her flowers when picking her up from her house, this might work well. Giving a bouquet at the end of the date may work great, too (this might also give you an excuse to go inside her house, by the way).

• ✅ Learn at least basic Polish. Yes, they speak English quite well in Poland, but you don’t want to be completely reliant on your girlfriend for everything while you’re in her country. There are lots of American men who date Slavic girls and rely on locals completely—if you want to look and feel more confident, you shouldn’t be like one of these men. This will definitely add you a few bonus points on a date.

• ✅ Pay for the date. It’s a very important part of Polish dating culture: in Poland, just like in other Slavic countries, men should pay for women. However, this doesn’t apply to 100% of beautiful Polish women—we can safely say there are some ladies who are more Westernized and would be glad to split the bill. But most women in Poland would prefer you to pay, of course.

Don’ts

• ❌ Don’t think they are too conservative. Poland is an EU country, and local women are not as old-fashioned as one might expect—they have pretty traditional views on gender/family roles, but they are pretty Westernized other than that. So just be yourself with a little hint of tradition—that’s enough.

• ❌ Don’t play games. By “playing games,” we mean “not being honest about your intentions”—this game might be common in the US, but it’s almost non-existent in Slavic countries and Poland in particular. You need to be direct because that’s what most Polish women are. Just give it to them straight and they’ll give it back straight.

How to bring your Polish girlfriend to the US?

If you want to date a Polish girl or marry her, it’s 100% legal—she can get a K-1 or a CR-1 visa and enter the United States legally. K-1 visas are a bit more common when it comes to international marriages: for example, in 2019, 135 Polish citizens entered the US on a fiance(e) visa. Here’s a short guide on getting a fiance(e) visa for your Polish bride:

• First, make sure you’re eligible. You must be a US citizen, your relationship must be valid, you must meet the income requirements, and of course, both you and your bride must be unmarried. If you’re eligible for this visa, let’s continue.
• You will have to file the petition for alien fiance(e) (Form I-129F). The processing time for this form is approximately 12 months.
• When the petition is approved, your partner must do a medical exam in her country and complete the visa application (form DS-160).
• After that, she’ll be invited to a visa interview, and you’ll need to provide an Affidavit of Support and tax returns.
• If everything is ok, your bride will get a K-1 visa. She’ll be able to enter the US legally after that.

You’ll have to marry within 90 days after her arrival. After the marriage, she’ll be able to apply for a green card.

Conclusion

Editor’s notes

Michael Krakowski

European Countries Expert

“If you’re still hesitating about dating Polish women, the only thing I can say is: don’t hesitate. They are a perfect choice for a serious relationship, they are family-oriented, loyal, and incredibly beautiful, and they are certainly more traditional than Western women. In addition, they love dating Western men, so if you want to meet Polish singles, you have a lot of dating opportunities.”

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Written byMichael Krakowski, Author

Michael has been using online dating apps for more than 5 years, but his main strength is that he knows literally everything about Slavic women. He knows how to date them and what problems to expect in American-Slavic relationships, he understands what Slavic women like and what they don’t like, and he is certainly an expert at Eastern European dating.

Edited byPhilippe Berry, Contributing Editor and Travel Expert

I've been to 33 countries, and I'm going to expand this list; I was pleased to date more than 100 ladies from other countries while traveling (not bragging; maybe just a little), and I'm pretty experienced in both building relationships and understanding cultures different from my own. I love having fun, exploring new places and cultures, and helping people who are as interested in international relationships as I am.

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